Kane and Kerosene

Kane & Kerosene


We are PainfullyKnk the husband and wife team of Kane and Kerosene. Just a little about us we have been together for 15 years. We have been in the scene for 5 years, doing rope for 5 years, and making candles for the last 4 years. We own PainfullyKnK wax, the makers of the “Rigger Stick” & “Rigger Stick 2.0.” As well as Theory Studios(photography studio & rope dojo). Kane is the leader of the San Antonio Rope Group. Kerosene is a photographer and operated under Narwhal Over the Rainbow.

Now that we have that out of the way. We spend a lot of time educating in our local community. For the last 4 years we have been leaders of our local rope group teaching 2 events a month. When it comes to wax we have been making candles for the past 4 years and teaching wax for the last 3 years. We found there was very little in the way of wax play education. When we were at events we heard all sorts of horror stories. It was then we started teaching wax play. When we developed the “Rigger Sticks” we started teaching how to incorporate more wax into rope.


Wax Play & Rope @ Texas C
Mar 4 @ 10:00 am – 11:30 am
Wax Play & Rope @ Texas C

Doesn’t get much better than this. A class that is near and dear to our hearts. Rope and wax goes together about a good as peanut butter and Jelly. In this class we show you how to get the most out of the combination.

This class includes

  • types of wax that are safe to use.
  • The do’s and don’ts of wax play.
  • Negotiating the scene and questions tops and bottoms need to ask.

Then we dive into rope and wax. We show you how to incorporate wax into several ties and how to manage your uplines if you have lite candles in them. Even though we won’t light candles in the hotel, we will still be showing how you can safely use rigger sticks and the 2.0s, as well as standard pillars and some other fun goodies.

Bring Creative Back to Your Kink @ Texas B
Mar 4 @ 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm
Bring Creative Back to Your Kink @ Texas B

We have all see the same few scenes played out time and time again.

You want to be different and get those creative juices flowing? In this class, we will dive into the art of constructing memorable scenes from the build up over time to preparations, negotiating, and execution.

This is an open discussion class where active participation is encouraged.