Nil and Swytch


Nil is a trans non-binary, queer witch, rope bender, and curator of spiritual-sexual synchrony. They are consecrated as one with the mystic and the erotic, interweaving the sacred into practice and play, and are a proud purveyor of all things creepy and curious. Nil first found love in the natural fibers of a well-spun rope while at Girl Scout camp, and they’ve been tying ever since. Nil appreciates all ends of the rope as a rigger, self-suspender, and artistically masochistic. Always a crystal in one hand and rope in the other, Nil regards kink as the ultimate artistic catharsis and uses their craft to banish gender, fracture binaries, and conjure queerness to challenge the norm.
Their classes take on the quality of the “why” behind what we do with a penchant for digging deep into our intimate emotional and interpersonal experiences in kink, building community, and giving participants permission to get weird. As an advocate for infiltrating the kink community with radical expressions of gender and identity, Nil endeavors to surge the presence of queer and non-normative bodies in BDSM culture.

Classes and Events

“reFISTance: Bondage for Fisting” with Nil and Swytch @ Guadalupe (Upstairs)
Oct 5 @ 3:00 pm – 4:30 pm
“reFISTance: Bondage for Fisting” with Nil and Swytch @ Guadalupe (Upstairs)

There are few sex acts as intimate and vulnerable as fisting. Opening your body to receive that kind of penetration is an incredibly powerful process of unfolding. It can evoke everything from potent surrender to joyous power play. The majority of classes, articles, and forums about fisting, however, focus primarily on the physical penetration itself with little to no information n about the process from the bottom’s perspective. This class flips the usual script on fisting and offers a more complete picture through description, dialogue, and demo led by Nil and Swytch. These two queer fisting enthusiasts will explore a full 360 view of fisting — the ins, the outs, and the all around.